Long term committed couples can have sex that is progressively more intimate and more exciting.
The catch is that it takes some work. It means owning your emotional baggage and being willing to help your partner through their stuff too. It becomes necessary to completely resolve every disagreement to the point of loving him or her to bits rather than shoving your feelings into the dark recesses of the collective basement of the relationship.
Evoë Thorne, "Profoundly in love," Whole Sex Life - I’ve been reading her blog archives and keep coming away amazed at her insights and bravery. Looking forward to reading with her today in Seattle at 3 pm - details below!
September 6, 3:30-4 pm
Free erotica reading in Seattle
Readings from The Big Book of Submission, The Big Book of Orgasms and Hungry for More with me and local contributors, including Evoë Thorne, Brandy Fox and others.
Center for Sex Positive Culture Annex, 1608 15th Ave W, Seattle, WA 98119
When you’re an erotica writer, you can say having sex is research. One of the perks of the job. One of the most fun things I did while researching THE SIREN was booking an appointment with a real Manhattan dominatrix at her dungeon. She beat the hell out of me after I told her I didn’t mind bruises. A lot of her clients are married men who visit dominas in secret. We had an awesome time and we’ve stayed in touch here and there. She’s as beautiful as Mistress Nora and just as wild.
The Original Sinners series author Tiffany Reisz in an interview at Darkest Sins. Tiffany also wrote a new male/male baseball erotica story “Bringing the Heat” which is published in Hungry for More and will be reading it live with me on Wednesday, September 10th at 7:30 at She Bop, 909 N. Beech Street, Portland, Oregon. See you there! Want to do me a favor? Even if you can’t make it, if you know people near Portland, Oregon, spread the word; the event is also on Facebook! (via rkb)